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srt/6.5 讲话不超时的“三时法”.txt

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+好 现在我们跟大家分享
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+当众讲话实战技巧
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+五个技巧的最后一个技巧
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+讲话不超时的三时法
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+三时法 
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+第一 叫问时
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+第二 叫分时 
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+第三 叫对时
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+为什么讲话要用三时法
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+来控制自己讲话的时间呢
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+因为我平时注意观察
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+在很多大会发言
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+或者学术讨论的时候
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+很多人时间掌握不好
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+掌握不好主要有两种情况
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+第一种 叫虎头蛇尾
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+第二种 叫做时间超过
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+不按规定的时间讲话
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+那么虎头蛇尾是什么意思
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+就是说原来我准备讲四个问题
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+可是我前面的问题没有控制住
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+讲得太长了
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+到最后三个问题没有时间讲了
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+只有说不好意思
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+今天时间的关系前面讲得太长
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+那么后面还有三个问题呢
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+我们只能快一点给大家
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+讲一个提纲了
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+所以这种就是虎头蛇尾
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+由于不会控制时间造成的
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+第二种就是硬性的超时
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+那么有一次我参加一个大学召开的
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+一个学术研讨会
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+那么他是来自省内的
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+各个一些重点大学
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+很多的学校都来参加
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+上午是大会发言 
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+下午是小组讨论
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+下午小组讨论的时候
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+规定了每个代表发言
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+只有10分钟
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+但是后来我当时统计了一下
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+10个人发言
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+只有3个人是遵守时间的
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+而其他的7个人都是超时了
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+当到9分钟的时候
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+主持人提醒现在还有1分钟
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+他在讲
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+等到10分钟的时候时间到
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+他仍然在讲
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+不管不顾把自己的观点
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+自己的发言整个讲完了
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+但是时间超了3分钟5分钟
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+致使整个下午的这个小组讨论
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+最后延长了40分钟的时间
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+这还都是大学教师
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+经常讲课的人都存在这种问题
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+所以不要小看这个超时的问题
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+那么三时法 
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+第一是问时
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+就是首先比如说
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+你要参加一个论坛 
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+要做一个讲话
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+一定要问清主持人
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+给我的讲课时间是多少
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+不要不问凭自己的想当然
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+问清给我的发言时间是10分钟
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+好 自己心里就很清楚了
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+那么我的讲话稿呢
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+我的讲话提纲的准备
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+就按照10分钟的时间来准备
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+这是第一
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+问时就是向主持人问清楚
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+多长时间
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+第二就是分时
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+根据主讲人
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+根据主持人给你的这个时间
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+你把自己讲话的这些分论点
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+讲话的几个部分要做一个切分
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+每个部分我讲多长时间
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+比方说我来做一个
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+那么编辑给我的时间是
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+假如说45分钟
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+我要讲三定练胆法
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+那么首先我自己要把这三个问题
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