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好 那么刚才跟大家分享了
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什么叫当众讲话
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接下来我们再来分享
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什么叫讲话的魅力
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魅力这两个字
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魅是吸引 力是力量
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那么合起来就是说
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你的讲话
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怎么样能够有吸引人的力量
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怎么样能够吸引人呢
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四个字
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胆 声 情 识
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我们先来说胆
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胆就是你站在台上
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面对众人讲话的时候
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你要有自信
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甚至还要有一点兴奋的状态
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能够在台上
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台下精心准备
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到台上有一个更好的发挥
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更出色的表现
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什么叫没胆呢
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就是事先你在台下把台词背的
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讲话的内容背的滚瓜烂熟
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可是往台上一站
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一看台下黑压压的人群
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脑子紧张 一片空白
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精心准备的讲稿讲词全都忘光了
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那么像这种无胆的状况
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不光咱们大学生会有
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包括我们做播音员做主持人的
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这些专家内行也会有
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我们有一位同行
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平时都是在播音室里
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对着话筒讲话
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结果第一次主持大型的晚会
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面对着上千人这样报幕了
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下面请欣赏新疆歌舞
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掀起你的头盖骨
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正确的应该是什么
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是掀起你的盖头来
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为什么会闹出这种笑话呢
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就是因为紧张害怕
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所以自己说错了
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还不知道错在哪儿
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那么还有一种
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就是有些
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已经工作很多年的公务员
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有一次我到一个厅级单位
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去做演讲的评委
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那么有一位处长上台了
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他的讲话给我的感觉就是三抖
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第一 拿着讲稿那个手在抖
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第二
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那个嘴角肌肉不由自主的在抖
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第三
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就是那个西装裤的裤缝也在抖
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说明什么 紧张
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自己都没有办法去控制它
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讲话要想有胆
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就是一定要经过训练
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但是假如说没有这个胆
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它就是一个拦路虎
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你台下词儿背得再好
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你再能够学富五车 满腹经纶
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到台上的表现都会令人失望
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所以有了胆
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你的讲话才是有魅力的
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这是第一个 有胆才会有魅力
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第二个是要有声
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大家都知道
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这个话是从口里讲出来的
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这个口里讲出来的话
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要做到三个字它就有魅力
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第一叫气
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第二叫声
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第三叫字
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那么我们先来说这个气
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气是要气沉丹田
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什么叫气沉丹田呢
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就是你在讲话的时候
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能做到小腹收紧
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小腹觉得累 嗓子不觉得累
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那就说明你是气沉丹田了
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这是第一 要有气
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第二 要有声 声音悦耳
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气息通畅了
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你的声音自然就会悦耳
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如果你不能够做到气沉丹田
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一定是这个地方在用力
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比方说
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各位老师 各位同学 大家好
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欢迎收看尔雅通识课
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我这个声音悦耳还是不悦耳
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不悦耳
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那么不悦耳的毛病在哪儿呢
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就在这个地方紧张
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它没有用上气
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所以我们把气练好了
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声音自然而然就会悦耳
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那么声的第三个要求就是字
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字是什么 是吐字
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因为我们讲话是跟别人沟通交流
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要让大家听得清清楚楚
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所以你的吐字必须是清楚的
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这里我们不要求每一个同学
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都能够像播音员一样字正腔圆
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普通话非常的标准
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但是你只要能够你传递的信息
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字让别人能够听清楚
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不会造成误会就没有问题了
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我有一次
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听这个中央广播电台的节目
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他们采访是一个县委书记
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他就讲到
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他说我们县是一个篮球之乡
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我们的女子篮球队那是非常棒的
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他这里就把女子篮球队
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说成了女子男球队
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那么这样
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你的信息传递就会造成误会
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这就属于吐字不清
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所以我们只有解决了气要通
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声要悦耳 吐字要清楚
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那么我们的第二个魅力点
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声的魅力就能够出来了
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第三个字是情
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大家说感情的这个情字
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左边是一个什么偏旁
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没错 是一个心字 竖心的心
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也就是说 这个情是在心里的
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但是为什么我们在心里的情
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观众他也能够感受得到呢
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这就是情在四个字叫抑扬顿挫
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抑是什么
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抑是讲话的声调要会低
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扬呢 是讲话的声调会高
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顿是会停顿 挫是会转折
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比方说
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宋代的大儒张载有四句话
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如果没有抑扬顿挫是这样的
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为天地立心 为生民立命
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为往圣继绝学 为万世开太平
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这个有没有抑扬顿挫
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对 没有抑扬顿挫
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所以它就听起来没有感情
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听我再用有抑扬顿挫的方式
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来说一遍
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为天地立心 为生民立命
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为往圣继绝学 为万世开太平
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同样一句话
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那么讲话加了抑扬顿挫之后
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是不是它的讲话效果就好
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情就能够让观众感受得到呢
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再比方说
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光未然的《黄河大合唱》当中
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他写的黄河之水天上来这首诗
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那么诗中我给大家节选一段
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来感受有抑扬顿挫
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和没有抑扬顿挫之间的区别
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红日高照 水上金光迸裂
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月出东山 河面银光似雪
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没有抑扬顿挫
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你的诗就没有激情
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那么再来听
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红日高照 水上金光迸裂
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月出东山 河面银光似雪
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它震荡着 跳跃着
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像一条飞龙
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日行千里 注入浩浩东海
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你看 加了这种抑扬顿挫之后
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这个诗的韵律
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这个诗的意境
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就能够让观众感受得到了
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所以我们说讲话的情的魅力
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就在抑扬顿挫
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那么讲话魅力的第四个字是识
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识就是见识
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就是你讲话的内容
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那么讲话的内容怎么样有魅力
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第一 要比别人的更深刻
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第二
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要比别人表达的更加的新颖
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比方说
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清代的中兴名臣叫曾国藩
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那么曾国藩
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他对当时他的学生李鸿章
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这样教导他
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他说一个人一生的这个失败
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就败在两个字上
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一个叫惰 一个叫傲
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惰就是懒惰 傲是傲慢
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大家想想
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这两个字是不是非常的精辟
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非常的深刻
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凡是一个人没有专长的
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没有去发奋去刻苦
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自己有一个立身之本的人
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都是因为懒惰
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那么有的人他也很勤奋
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他也很有成就
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但是最后仍然会失败
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败在哪儿 败在傲慢
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就是说当一个人有了专长之后
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你没有一颗很谦虚的心
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没有一颗擅于向别人学习
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向别人请教和恭敬之心
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对人对事非常的傲慢
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这样早晚仍然会失败
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所以大家说
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曾国藩讲的这两个字
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一个是惰 一个是傲
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就是人失败的两个关键的字
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是不是很精辟
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是不是很深刻
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是不是很新颖
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再给大家举个例子
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小米的雷军大家都非常熟悉
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那么现在小米
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它的销量已经超过了三星
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是全球排在了第二位
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那么介绍到这个小米成功的经验
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雷军他就用了七个字
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第一叫专注 极致 口碑 快
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你看他就用这七个字
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就把他们创业的整个的过程
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他的经验给高度的概括提炼出来
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专注 就是他们只专注于做手机
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三年只做了六款
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是不是非常的专注
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那么极致呢
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他就不断的修改
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不断的根据大家的意见
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反馈来改变
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提升他的小米手机的功能
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真正是做到了极致
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什么叫口碑
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小米开始在网上销售的时候
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第一个星期只有100个人知道
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第二个星期 就有200个人
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第三个星期 400个人
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然后就这样一倍一倍的往上翻
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完全是没有做广告
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完全是通过口碑的传播
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最后一个字 快
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就是根据客户
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根据网友米粉的这些反馈信息
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他们会及时的更改
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更新小米的功能
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所以我们第四个魅力点就是识
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也就是说你的讲话的内容
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要比别人的更加深刻
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比别人讲的表达更加的新颖
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做到了这四个字
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胆 声 情 识
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那么你的讲话
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就自然而然是有魅力的
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我们再来把这四个字变成两个成语
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胆和识结合起来叫有胆有识
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那么声和情结合起来呢
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叫声情并茂
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所以当众讲话做到了有胆有识
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声情并茂
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那么你就是讲话有魅力的人